Some concerns I have
So, about maybe a month or 2 ago now, who should just happen to contact me on my Instagram? Brian Burger! You know, it's pathetic. About 11 years ago, I decided I no longer wanted to be friends with him. And he finds me on instagram. Anyway, just shortly after my friend's ex-husband contacts me, who else do I end up hearing from? My friend's oldest daughter. Anyways, my friend's daughter, Aleisia ended up sending me a message asking me to help her reconnect with her mom. Now, in a way, I guess I should be a little bit concerned because for all though I'm glad that she found me on instagram, I'm hoping it's not because her dad showed her my profile.I guess it's a little fishy that he would find me on Instagram and then my friend's oldest daughter would contact me on there. But as long as she willingly wanted to get a hold of me so she could reconnect with her mom who she hasn't seen now in 10 years, I'm glad I could help her out. My concern though is that her dad, Brian isn't using her to get to me, because for him to find me on Instagram and then have her contact me telling me that her dad wants to know if him and I can ever be friends again, sounds kind of stalking-ish. After all he'd done to me and her mom from 2004-2009, as well as what he's done to her in the past, I don't think it's a good idea. I mean it's one thing to think he can actually persue resuming a friendship with me when I no longer have any interest in being his friend again, but now he's dragging the kids into it.Hopefully, this is going to bite him in his ass.
Luckily, since I gave my friend's daughter her contact information as well as how to reconnect with her, my friend has been talking to her and her sister on the phone weekly, which is good. Anyway, I was talking to my friend last night, and she said that hopefully she was going to get the ball rolling on getting custody of her girls. So if her ex-husband is trying to get her girls who are in his care to relay messages to me from him about me being his friend again, this will hopefully bite him in the ass, since I know what he's like. Anyway, my friend said sometime in the near future she was going to contact her lawyer and see what they could do so that she and her girls could see each other again and spend some time together, face to face. And then maybe she can finally get the full custody of her girls which is what she's been needing to do for a while. And maybe they can also do an investigation on their dad, too, since he's got to be doing something online that's illegal that could incriminate him. I mean, it may appear that he's doing everything right to be a good dad, but he could still be doing something online that could get him in some serious trouble. It is possible to live a double life, where you're a parent to your kids, but you're still doing something that's a very serious crime. And this guys is a very disturbed guy. If her kids end up going to live with her in Wisconsin, I'm hoping since they also have cats that they can have the cats go with them because I'm also concerned about what he might do to the cats if her girls go live with her, but the cats are still there. If I could, I'd adopt their cats, and then the cats could come live with me.If my friend and her current husband end up moving to an apartment that they can afford, I hope it'll also be one where you can have 2 cats, so that the girls can bring the cats with them.
Luckily, since I gave my friend's daughter her contact information as well as how to reconnect with her, my friend has been talking to her and her sister on the phone weekly, which is good. Anyway, I was talking to my friend last night, and she said that hopefully she was going to get the ball rolling on getting custody of her girls. So if her ex-husband is trying to get her girls who are in his care to relay messages to me from him about me being his friend again, this will hopefully bite him in the ass, since I know what he's like. Anyway, my friend said sometime in the near future she was going to contact her lawyer and see what they could do so that she and her girls could see each other again and spend some time together, face to face. And then maybe she can finally get the full custody of her girls which is what she's been needing to do for a while. And maybe they can also do an investigation on their dad, too, since he's got to be doing something online that's illegal that could incriminate him. I mean, it may appear that he's doing everything right to be a good dad, but he could still be doing something online that could get him in some serious trouble. It is possible to live a double life, where you're a parent to your kids, but you're still doing something that's a very serious crime. And this guys is a very disturbed guy. If her kids end up going to live with her in Wisconsin, I'm hoping since they also have cats that they can have the cats go with them because I'm also concerned about what he might do to the cats if her girls go live with her, but the cats are still there. If I could, I'd adopt their cats, and then the cats could come live with me.If my friend and her current husband end up moving to an apartment that they can afford, I hope it'll also be one where you can have 2 cats, so that the girls can bring the cats with them.
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