just some thoughts about 2 friends
You know, for about maybe 2 years now, I've been thinking, my friends Jeremae Cox, and Megan Ellingburg should meet eachother, someday. They do have a bit of similarities with eachother. And I'm hoping if they do, they do like each other, just fine. I mean let's see:
1. They both have light Cerebral Palsy and ADHD at the same time, but they can both walk
2. Their birthdays are really close together, by like a month apart.
3. They're pretty much the same age
4. They're both on the same boat, in some ways when it comes to the whole needing to be on SSI and needing to live in low income housing.
5. they both live a far distance away from the Waukesha county of Wisconsin, but they're both looking into moving back into the Waukesha county area, at some point in the future.
6. I know that they're both maybe up for making new friends and meeting new people.
7. They might like a lot of the same activities and movies
8. They're kids are very close together, age wise.
I think maybe if they met, and got to know eachother well, maybe they could be a support system for eachother in doing what it takes to get custody of their kids. At least Jeremae got away from Brian, but Megan still has yet to really leave this guy for good. And I know she's probably back and forth about why she should stay with him and why she shouldn't. But maybe they could encourage eachother to get custody of their kids, and maybe Jeremae and I could help encourage Megan to leave this guy, and do whatever it takes to get as far away from her ex-boyfriend, as possible. As for helping them in finding places to live in the Waukesha county area, I can always give them information on low income housing, and where that's located, and services they might need for things like counseling, and good schooling for kids in elementary school and what not. I know I can't get too involved in their lives, but if they do end up finding a place to get situated in say, Waukesha, somewhere, and they needed help, I wouldn't mind helping them in moving some of their stuff in, or something like that. But the fact is that, I care about these girls, and the decisions they make. I just want them to make good decisions. And if that means do whatever you can to get your kids as far away from their abusive dads as possible, I'm going to encourage that because I know all I can really do is give advice, make suggestions, and offer encouragement. If they are successful at getting the full custody sometime in the future, I know that means they'll have to make sure that her abusive ex and b/f don't get their contact information, what so ever, because if this abusive jerk have their contact information, he could come after her.
1. They both have light Cerebral Palsy and ADHD at the same time, but they can both walk
2. Their birthdays are really close together, by like a month apart.
3. They're pretty much the same age
4. They're both on the same boat, in some ways when it comes to the whole needing to be on SSI and needing to live in low income housing.
5. they both live a far distance away from the Waukesha county of Wisconsin, but they're both looking into moving back into the Waukesha county area, at some point in the future.
6. I know that they're both maybe up for making new friends and meeting new people.
7. They might like a lot of the same activities and movies
8. They're kids are very close together, age wise.
I think maybe if they met, and got to know eachother well, maybe they could be a support system for eachother in doing what it takes to get custody of their kids. At least Jeremae got away from Brian, but Megan still has yet to really leave this guy for good. And I know she's probably back and forth about why she should stay with him and why she shouldn't. But maybe they could encourage eachother to get custody of their kids, and maybe Jeremae and I could help encourage Megan to leave this guy, and do whatever it takes to get as far away from her ex-boyfriend, as possible. As for helping them in finding places to live in the Waukesha county area, I can always give them information on low income housing, and where that's located, and services they might need for things like counseling, and good schooling for kids in elementary school and what not. I know I can't get too involved in their lives, but if they do end up finding a place to get situated in say, Waukesha, somewhere, and they needed help, I wouldn't mind helping them in moving some of their stuff in, or something like that. But the fact is that, I care about these girls, and the decisions they make. I just want them to make good decisions. And if that means do whatever you can to get your kids as far away from their abusive dads as possible, I'm going to encourage that because I know all I can really do is give advice, make suggestions, and offer encouragement. If they are successful at getting the full custody sometime in the future, I know that means they'll have to make sure that her abusive ex and b/f don't get their contact information, what so ever, because if this abusive jerk have their contact information, he could come after her.
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