Conversation with someone delusional

 

Conversation from June 5, 2023:

Crazy girl: Hi girl. I'm feeling a little nervous about getting married is that normal?

Me: I would think so.

Crazy girl: Yeah. Charles is probably feeling the same way. Charles is probably feeling the same way. I'm probably anxious about it. It's a big commitment.

Me: Yes it is.

Crazy girl: But I love him and ready to get married. 

Me:When is the big day?

Crazy girl: June 10th

Me:Oh OK.

Crazy girl:  But I can't be there because of work.

Me: You can't be at your own wedding?  

Crazy girl:I will try

Me:That doesn't make any sense

Crazy girl: I can't leave my job. I'm just afraid of getting fired. I can't leave because of my work and my dog. I don't know what the heck I'm going to do.

Me: you work on Saturday? Well, if you are getting married for real, you would have to have that day off from work for the big day, number 1. And you would have to be living with the guy and know him real well inside and out to know he's the right one, before you get married to him. 

Crazy girl:I don't work Saturday but Friday yes. Yeah your right. I actually know a lot about him. Basically he has a brother. His birthday is June 10th.

Me:But how well do you know him in person?

Crazy Girl: He likes star wars and marvel. Sports and music. He likes dunkin donuts. He likes pets like me.He has a dog.He likes weather like me.

Me:ok, so you know his interests and family life. But how well do you know him in terms of personality?

Crazy girl: Are you trying to break us up?

Me: no, but what you're saying isn't very realistic.You have to be engaged before you can be married, you have to know the person you're with very well to know he's the right one for you in person, and you have to be living with that guy before you even get engaged. And you have to be able to spend time with that person in person, as well. Not just online or on the phone. 

Crazy girl: Now I'm angry.

Me: sorry, but that's the reality of things.

Crazy girl:It's amazing how people change. I think you broke me and Charles up. Why would you break me and him up?

Me:I'm not doing it to be mean. I'm just telling you the facts from experience and from watching other people. But you can do what you want.

Crazy girl: That's fine.I'm just really frustrated.You are being negative about it.

Me: I'm being realistic about it.

 

June 6, 2023:

Crazy girl: Hi girl.I have a question.Do you think me and Charles are done?

Me: I think how you're going to be getting "married" doesn't add up or make any sense

 

June 15, 2023:

Crazy girl: I have a question girl. Do I do a wedding vow for Charles?

Me:I would think you 2 would have to be living together first and plan a wedding together in person.

Crazy girl: Oh

Me:There's no way you can marry each other online when you never even met in person.
 
Crazy girl: Why can't you be happy for me you don't want me happy? It's wrong.
 
(And here's where I end up going off on her):
 
Me: no, I think you're crazy and delusional. Either that your your man is either retarded or he's delusional. what you want to do isn't reality. it's just a fantasy, and I'm about ready to expose your crazy delusional fantasies about getting married to a guy who lives all the way across the country who you only met online, who you don't even know in person. That's just crazy talk.

 

 I'm sorry, but all she's saying here makes absolutely no sense, nor does any of it add up, and for using the "R" word by the way. Besides, that's now how you end up getting married. At least I don't think it is. She might think I'm being a "bad friend" because I'm trying to tell her how it should work, but at least I'm telling her the truth on how it should be. And if truth be told, I don't even really consider her a "friend". She's some young lady who goes to my in person group meetings, she never talks to me in person while we're there, yet she talks to me online all crazy and delusional. It's not that I don't want her to be happy. I think what she's all saying is just crazy. Besides, there's always more to a person than just their interests, likes and dislikes, and their family life. There's also their family backgrounds, there's their personality, their mannerisms, how they treat you, how they treat other family, friends, and other people. She's never mentioned anything about that. She might think she knows this person very well, but it doesn't sound like she knows a whole lot about him at all. 




 



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